We think when we tell another how we are feeling, that this is honesty. “I felt betrayed by you when you cheated. How could you do this to me?” he emotionally spoke to his partner. This is how the ego teaches honesty, for the ego is intent on making you it's OWN. The ego wants to possess, even though it is not even true in reality.
If it was, it would tell you the truth. That sameness is true, not separateness. But if it was to do so, the ego reign would be over and it would be no more. Thus, it’s demise would be certain. So, it does everything that it can to maintain the belief in separation, for whilst you believe in opposites, the ego seems true.
Recently, I have run into this problem myself. I have been teaching clients that what is within is their shadows that they need to undo by 'forgiving within'. Yet, they continue to repeat, "But you do not understand, if they hadn't of done it, then I wouldn't be feeling like this." This is upside-down thinking. The way the ego wants you to believe it, that the cause is outside. This is the great lie of the ego, for the cause is within, that is why what you are feeling or experiencing belongs to you. You need to withdraw the shadows of the sin of separation that cover your mind, where the truth of Oneness can be found. Where true honesty resides.
So, what is true honesty and what does it have to do with the ego?
True honesty is a shift in perception from fear to love, from separation to sameness, where there can be nothing to oppose it. Therefore, because the world of form holds opposites, it is dishonest, for it is built upon the deception of the sin of separation.
Now that I have told you that that true honesty must come from a place of Oneness, that is, Perfect Love, how can you have honesty in a world of opposites? You simply continue to correct your perception from fear to love. From the wrong mind of judgment and attack to the right mind of peace and love.
You may have been told this in the past, but did anyone have the process to teach you how to do it? Well, I do. It is the practical application of the type of Forgiveness that is mentioned in A Course in Miracles and it is ready to be released into consciousness.
The Four Steps of True Honesty
There are four steps that move thinking from the ego-mind, that teaches the belief in separation, which is a lie, to return thinking to the right mind, that is built upon the foundation of Perfect Love. These steps are:
Step 1 - Forgiveness
This is but the first step. A decision for love over fear. There is only thought, for the world of form is the projection of the thoughts you think within. You must decide for Forgiveness over judgment.
Step 2 - Authenticity
You become authentic and true by withdrawing your projections of sin, what you have cast upon another. There is no blame, for the problem is always within, it is never without.
Step 3 - Introspection
Look within, truly forgiving every layer of darkness that covers the truth of your Perfect Love. For truth must be whole, it cannot have opposites. Hidden underneath the dark layers of sin, guilt and fear is the Oneness of Love that you crave to remember.
Step 4 - Trust
When your problem has been returned to peace and you have corrected your thinking from fear to love, you can trust this voice within. Here the inner voice is found. It speaks of holiness not harm, happiness not gloom, and innocence not sin.
These four steps enable you to be honest. True honesty is not of this world, for the dream of duality is built upon a lie.
When you add each step, it becomes FAIT, and this is how you will correct your destined FATE and change the events of form you were set to experience. No longer do you need to remain a victim of the world at large, for the map to miracles that leads from suffering to salvation has been granted. And all you had to do was to be honest, by shifting your thinking from fear to love.
When you add the final step of Honesty, it becomes the truth of FAITH, for it is a pathway out of the illusion of sin, guilt and fear and into awakening with God. The remembrance of innocence, peace and love.
Let me guide you to correct your perception and move from the nightmare into the happy dream. I am here to be truly helpful, and this means, to assist to undo fear to remember love. This is what I have done for myself and many others as well. It is the contents of The Treasure Map that will offer you true healing, the return to right-minded thinking, which can be accessed through the subconscious.
If you are ready to dive in, I have a short 7-day course that will introduce you to this map to miracles. It is called The Truforgiveness Journal and it comes with a 30-day money-back guarantee of FAITH on it.
Oneness is true, not separateness and this is your true honesty!
Much love, peace and Truforgiveness,