Lately, when I see a post on social media and someone is mentioning the difficult journey that they are going through, I will see a comment saying something along the lines of 'I am holding space for you.' Another ego idea that seeks the belief in separation, keeping you stuck to the little self of lack, limitation, and lovelessness that offers every pain or problem you experience in the dream of time.
I truly healed because I learned how to take my problems to God, by backtracking through the subconscious mind, withdrawing every shadow that the misperception of separation offers. This then takes you from wrong-minded thinking which is judgment and attack, to right-mindedness which is peace and love. Here, the happy dream awaits those that place their idols of separation upon the altar to God within, symbolizing that they will have no other idols before Him. The only idol that there is, is the ego - the belief that separation from Source is possible. And so, whilst you want to point blame and make another guilty, or even yourself, by believing in the story of time, you cannot know the truth of who you are - the being of Perfect Love.
Hidden deep within you is the wholeness of holiness that you crave. This is where your wellness can be found, even if the body appears to be sick. This is why you do not need to recount the story of suffering that the ego wants to repeat, for it simply maintains the belief in separation. The true cause of your problems. It is not what another does to you, for if you had reclaimed the truth of Perfect Love, you would not be able to be pained or punished.
The issue is within you. Withdraw the shadows that cover the truth of Perfect Love within and miracles will be made. You do this by following the process of FAITH that God has granted that takes you from separation to sameness (Oneness).
If I look back over my life and the intense suffering that I have faced, I could not have begun to undo ego-identification without the dark shadows appearing. What came to seemingly harm me, is what I used to truly heal, so every time you are down in the dumps know that it is a gift to remember your true Self. If everything was always peachy keen you would have no reason to find your true Self - the Child of God that dreams that death in duality is possible.
The pain and problems hold a gift of grace if you become willing to search within and to remove every barrier to the awareness of love's presence. Without your brother showing you where it was you had buried the belief in sin (the idea of separation) you would have no way of finding your way out of the dream in time.
This is true healing. The remembrance of your innocent Self. The more of truth you reclaim, by forgiving within, the better the journey through time you shall have, as you build upon the foundation of Perfect Love, which is the symbol of the rock that Jesus was referring to. It cannot be broken, for that which is whole is healed indeed.
Of course, we have those special relationships in the dream of time. But even those close to me, I teach them to withdraw the shadows and to take their problems to God by following The Treasure Map. I have learned that this is the way they will truly heal. You see, before my own ego crumbled I offered divine guidance through mediumship readings, I had become the friend that people turned to, to dump their problems upon. I was great at holding space and being a doormat to the ego nightmare. Playing god myself, essentially! This is the mistake. We are not God. God is the All and without Him, we are nothing.
Turn to God, go inward, truly forgive everything that stands in the way of the truth of Oneness within and you will become truly healed in wholeness and swap the nightmare for the happy dream that is here for the innocent Mind.
Holding space does not offer true healing. It gives a voice to the ego. It is time to undo the ego, so stop making the ego your god and find the truth of your Father of Perfect Love within, that is waiting for you to come Home.
You have no idea at how miraculous your life will become. Do not reach out to another to support you, when God is within you. However, you can only reach God in a state of Perfect Love. So, to do this, you must truly forgive every barrier that keeps the awareness of this truth out of your mind. It is The Treasure Map that guides the way.
So, next time you want someone to hold space for you, stop and know it is your call to mentally go within. To begin to remove the barriers to the awareness of love's presence that will truly heal you. Do not be afraid of the darkness within, as it covers the truth of Perfect Love. And if you should come across someone that needs you to sit with them, make sure you are mentally drawing up The Treasure Map from where the shadow appears on them, to assist in truly healing the truth of wholeness: Oneness with Perfect Love.
Much love, peace, and Truforgiveness,