Good Man

 For nearly two decades I kept every man at a distance — a wall built for protection. This is how Truforgiveness dissolved it, and let the right mind reveal the true desire hidden beneath the fear.

A long time ago, nearly two decades, I made a decision that I would no longer allow men into my life. It was more for self-protection rather than discrimination.

I even had people say to me, ‘You just need to find yourself a husband.’ But I knew. If I continued to attract, or be attracted to, the same men, they would break me. And so, I put up a wall. A wall that is beginning to break.

When God asked for the men

A few years ago, God came to me. He told me that He needed men in His Kingdom, and not only women, for I was still avoiding sharing The Treasure Map with them. Keeping men at a distance. I needed to truly forgive them — not for me, but for God, I assumed. It makes me smile now. For God knew what I was missing.

First you must truly forgive the darkness within to allow the light of the right mind to reveal your heartfelt desire. Your positive affirmation that is also true. The wrong mind of separation does not know what is best for you. Locate the right mind and watch the miracles be made.

First you must truly forgive the darkness within to allow the light of the right mind to reveal your heartfelt desire.

And as I cleaned within, the hidden hate and secret sin began to be revealed. I also learned to trust my inner voice, and not listen to the ego-mind.

Truforgiveness reclaimed me

Yes, by truly forgiving men, I reclaimed myself — able to truly forgive myself, and to stop the need to seek punishment. This is why Truforgiveness is always for the one that truly forgives. For it returns you to the right mind of peace and love.

Honestly, over the past two decades I have not had one inkling to invite a man into my life. There was a brief interaction, a decade or so ago, but I was truly forgiving this man in the hope to finally find my freedom.

The door begins to open

And now, I find myself in a precarious position. I was just walking when I saw a man that I know. He is in a relationship — a purely platonic male to me. And he also knows of my strong stance against allowing a man into my life. He knows a little of my past with men. Then it flowed from my mouth.

‘I think I would like to meet a man that will protect my soul and bring peace to my life.’ OMG! Did I just say this?

This was a complete turnaround for me. I was beginning to extend light from my being. All because I had removed the barriers to the presence of light within, over the past few years with my Truforgiveness practice. And to be honest, the men from my past did not protect my soul nor bring peace to my life. I finally love myself enough to allow a good man in. The door is beginning to open.

I finally felt the call. Something that I have not allowed for nearly two decades. I know… it’s been a long time.

Yet, this shift has come about because God could see what was happening. I had built such a strong wall against men, for I had not truly forgiven the hurt or the harm.

Your true affirmation

Even over the past few days, as I moved through another Truforgiveness opportunity with a man, I received a gift. I found freedom in my voice to stand up and to speak up. To set healthy boundaries. I could do this. I could be powerful with men, and not allow myself to be railroaded.

Well, this is something I never thought that I would write again. But by the love of Truforgiveness, my barriers — that were set so high, too high to climb — have begun to dissolve. It is time to allow love to flow freely between the right men and me.

It is time to allow love to flow freely between the right men and me.

For those of you that love affirmations, The Treasure Map leads to your true affirmation. That which has been granted by the right mind of Perfect Love. So, in this example above, what could the true affirmation be?

I meet men that protect my soul and bring peace to my life.

I love men that protect my soul and bring peace to my life.

I attract men that protect my soul and bring peace to my life.

Men that protect my soul and bring peace to my life are attracted to me.

Whatever works for you. But what is most clear is that, because of my Truforgiveness practice, I have gotten extremely clear. I am seeking men that protect my soul and bring peace to my life.

How the map works

The Treasure Map works through FAITH — Forgiveness, Authenticity, Introspection, Trust and Honesty — and a set of thirty questions that surface the hidden hurt, layer by layer. You meet each one honestly, then answer it with your own ‘I forgive…’ statement, until the whole map becomes one continuous true prayer. It asks only that you go gently, and never more than one map a day. This is tender inner work, and it deserves your patience.

The return to love

I hope this helps you to dream the best dream for you. Remember, first you purify from dark to light via The Treasure Map. Then you extend light from the right mind that allows miraculous manifesting. Find it within to have it without. This is true spiritual law.

This is the true meaning of a miracle. The return to love. The return to the right mind from the wrong.

Much love, peace and Truforgiveness,

Begin The True Healing

The Treasure Map of Truforgiveness

The Truforgiveness-based inner-healing practice that withdraws the shadows of sin, guilt, and fear — so the light of the right mind can reveal the true desire waiting beneath. Thirty questions, the process of FAITH, and your own true prayer. Find those that protect your soul and bring peace to your life.

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