You Hurt Where You Need HealJan 24, 2019
Yes, the real you cannot be hurt. The fake self of ego-identification (your mistaken identity) is the home of suffering and what is causing your pain. Your decision to be separate rather than whole.
Whilst you believe you are the individual self, suffering will stay with you. It is part of the script when you decided for specialness over sameness. But if you use those ego pains to heal, each time you 'forgive within' that which came to destroy, you take one step closer to the happiness you seek. So it would follow, the more hurts you are willing to truly forgive, the greater the happiness you will have to experience.
And it is here that you will turn the ego game upside-down!
But you cannot offer ego Forgiveness, for it is Truforgiveness that you seek, where you forgive some aspect of the belief in separation, which is the true cause of every problem that you make.
What once came as something to blame (i.e. you did this to me!) now becomes a blessing. What you once cursed another for will be used as a means for true healing. Healing in the mindset of Truforgiveness is used to symbolize awakening. This is what true healing is when you awaken to your perfect, peaceful, powerful Self. In fact, the darkness now becomes your chance for redemption, instead of your crucifixion: as you unlearn the ego fear to remember the glorious Perfect Love of God. Without your brother highlighting where you had buried your pain you would have no way to find your way out of the mayhem of madness and back to the Oneness of Perfect Love. This is how you become grateful for your brother. Those that are loving and those that are seemingly not. For each, in their own way has come to offer you a chance to remember the truth of the wholeness of holiness.
This thinking is completely opposite to everything the ego teaches. And even I have had my days when I found myself back in ego thinking and wishing, 'If only you hadn’t of done that to meI!' But as soon as I remembered, I would forgive within, which will not only heal the pain, but it undoes the belief that I am the body, reminding me that I am still as God created. Safe in Heaven, dreaming that separation from Source is possible. But before we get this far along, in remembrance of truth, the more hurts you heal, the greater the happiness you will claim.
Truforgiveness is never for another, it is always for your Self, as there is only One Son of God. You can only hurt where it is you are in need of healing, and it is always some aspect of the decision to be separate from Source.
So even though it seems another has come into your life and left you feeling less than good, the pain was already within. You projected it upon them. But now you are aware of where it is you are hurting, be grateful for the opportunity to heal. It will take you one step closer to the happiness that is who You truly are and what You are worthy and deserving of.
See everything as a blessing for it all can be used to truly heal if you be willing to change your mind.
What can you change about your mind now? Where does judgment come to steal your peace? Are you willing to transmute this into a blessing?
We are all aware of the great depression, but one day in the future there will come a time when The Treasure Map is spoken of as The Great Healing.
Much love, peace, and Truforgiveness,